There is more to the story than what made it onto the page.
Coaching begins where the book ends. If something in Chasing Her named a pattern you're still living - the hunger, the fumbling, the fear underneath the wanting - this is where you do the work in real time, with someone who's already been through it.
"I didn't become whole by conquering desire. I became whole by learning how to feel - without fleeing, performing, or numbing."
Balwin coaches men and women working through desire, intimacy, and the stuff that keeps getting in the way of both. No scripts, no theory for its own sake - just direct, honest conversation.
Live gatherings, retreats, and early access to whatever comes next
Fort Greene Park, Brooklyn, NY
A casual, all-welcome afternoon outdoors — connection games and open conversation.
Fort Greene Park, Brooklyn
Union Square Park, Manhattan
Celebrate the launch of chasing Her, with a relaxed, two-day outdoor gathering in New York City.
A casual 90-min group Q&A session with Balwin Ratra.
"If you’re a man who’s ever struggled with women - felt helpless and lost in the face of her rejection, Chasing Her is the book for you. We follow Bruce through both his hopeless mistakes and confusion, then follow him as he learns how to please and create magical sexual experiences with women - Chasing Her invites us to journey with Bruce as he tries everything you can possibly imagine to understand and delight in the connection with these beautiful and mysterious beings called women."
"What shook me deeply is Bruce’s experience of the dance between giving and receiving. Or lack of when the woman is blocked or blocking. As a recovering perfectionist and control freak when it comes to romantic relationships, I saw myself in so many pieces. Very painful. Very grateful. A part of me softened by the feeling of pleasure a man experiences when the woman is utterly open and bare. When she can hold it..."
"I liked how honest and real the story felt. Bruce’s journey through love, rejection, sex, insecurity, and eventually learning more about himself kept me interested to know how it will end. The book has alot of funny moments and some awkward ones and downright serious about his personal struggles throughout the years that leads Bruce to learn and grow from those experiences. That’s what made it feel real. It’s not just about chasing women, it’s also about confidence, relationships, loneliness, all those things everyone in life goes through and learns from.”