chasing Her
“This book is about desire.
The kind that drives you crazy.”
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"Women were the doorway, not the destination."
This is the story of what it took to learn the difference — the heartbreak, the hunger, the fumbling, the breakthroughs. All of it. Everything in this book happened.
Prologue
I didn't become whole by conquering desire. I became whole by learning how to feel — without fleeing, performing, or numbing.
"It named something I couldn't"
"This memoir is honest in a way that costs something. You can feel it on every page. I felt seen in a way no self-help book has ever managed."
"A strikingly intimate exploration about what it means to flounder in the search for love. This book is a portal into parts of the male psyche, few men are vulnerable enough to share"
"Oh my God Balwin! I couldn’t stop reading this. It’s exactly what is really happening. Everyone needs to read it! But I didn’t like the tantra part, did you have to write that?”
The Story in Fragments
